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My children are at a stage in their life in which they mimic what I do. Music is something that has always been important and a general love for it was cultivated within me as a child. I want my children to drink deep in all the many ways music can speak to them. Because they are in the mimicking stage, what I turn on the stereo matters a great deal. It tells my children that the artist is acceptable and worthy of their time. This is precisely why I am so picky about what comes through those speakers. This is why you won’t find local (or syndicate) christian radio being played in my van. Most of the content on the radio is not worthy of their consideration, or the artist is not someone I want my children to emulate. But what if the song has a really good message or is great musically? That is a cheap justification. I would not recommend to you a book on why Pluto is no longer a planet if the author was an avowed atheist. Why? The worldview of the the author is going to be drastically different than mine. Worldview may not play much influence on what constitutes a planet but worldview seeps in in unsuspecting ways. Music is no different. The artist’s worldview will be on display, and more importantly, so will the artist’s theology.
Oh there it is. That dirty word. Theology. The study of God. In our culture that has a difficult time stomaching difference in thought, it’s not popular, and often some christians even label it as sinful, to discuss someone’s theology. Everyone has a theology. Everyone. Your belief, and/or your system of belief, about God is your theology. But why does that matter with music? This gives more explanation to my first statement that most of the content on the radio isn’t worth my child’s listen. I don’t want to teach my children that self-centered and self-serving music is acceptable. There was recently on social media a satirical video in which a christian band was interviewing for a record deal. It was jesting at the shallow nature of modern Christian music. The formula for a hit song was the “holy trinity of chords (A, D & G), more water references and overcoming vague struggles.” As with most comedy, it’s funny because it’s true. The truth of it is tragic. Those three markers tell a lot about the health of the modern church. It’s supposed to be funny but, as satire usually does, it stings. And it should! Accustomed to When it comes to considering our infinitely inexpressible God, these shallow gestures of self-therapy are not what I want my children to think are acceptable. They are not. So why does theological music actually matter? The songs I want my children to sing and love and relate to must be rooted in scripture, not self. The expressions need to be about the nature and being of our majestic God himself, and not how they feel about his majesty at any given moment. Not many of the songs on the radio today live up to this standard. If 7 out of 10 songs played self serving songs, that leaves 3 worthy songs. Why would I listen to 7 songs that are poorly written or altogether narcissistic, when I can choose to play 10 out of 10 songs via iTunes, Pandora, or YouTube. This isn’t a plug for any of those platforms, but it is a plea for parents and Christians to seize an opportunity to intentionally fill their hearts and minds with the glory of God through the medium of music. It’s also a plea to my fellow musicians to write and share things that are worthy of the God of whom they speak of. What we listen to matters.
My boys, 7 & 3, are fairly musical already. They can hold pitch and keep a steady beat. It isn’t uncommon to hear a compilation of the ABC’s, This is the Day, The Itsy-Bitsy Spider, and Nothing but the Blood being belted out by my 3 year-old. What a beautiful song to the Lord. It often moves me to tears to hear my children sing, but especially when they sing of the wondrous love, sacrifice, and glories of God. Hymns tell a story that doesn’t just describe vague struggles. They tell of the battle that is being waged for the soul. One of the best challenges I have found is a word by Kevin DeYoung. He asks the question of Pastors, “Are you teaching any songs that can be sung acapella around your hospital bed in 50 years?” That question has served my husband well as he is often, as an associate pastor, in a hospital with families that are preparing for the death of a loved one. You can’t drag in a guitar and sing a song of vague struggles. He has testified to me many occasions where he opened his hymnal and sang an anthem of the faith to comfort someone about to meet Jesus. Recently, at such a bedside, he had been asked some deep spiritual questions about death. When he came home and shared with me, my first response was singing two songs scripture based hymns that would have directly answered those questions. I probably could have come up with a few more if I had actually opened a hymnal. Modern hymns like “He Will Hold Me Fast” and “In Christ Alone” are theologically rich in content and are true to the reality of life. “It Is Well” is an old hymn that also teaches much about depending on Christ in life and in death. “All Glory Be to Christ,” “Oh, the Deep, Deep Love,” and “There is a Fountain Filled with Blood” these are the songs that I want my children to know and sing. These are the truths that I want them to learn as children so that when life happens, old or young, they can know the deep truths about God. I want them to know them and sing them to me as they gather around my bed and prepare to send me to my Savior. I long for the satisfaction of that day. Which is why I’m not sure that there is anything sweeter than the voices of my children singing
Well, except maybe yours.
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