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You will learn to love it! You can have a fruitful family worship time by following the following five steps.
First, Learn for yourself what family worship is. Family worship is a time set aside for all family members living under your roof to sit down together and worship Jesus. Family Worship should resemble aspects of our Sunday gathered worship time of the church families together. Ask a member with more experience leading family worship in the home to help you understand what this looks like. Learn specifically what family worship is. In other words, flesh out your definition. The church’s worship usually includes elements that can easily be adapted into shared responsibilities. It might include these aspects: sharing the family schedule, sharing requests for prayer, taking the time to lead a prayer aloud for those requests, missionary updates, a key memory verse of the season, a song you can sing with only your voices OR listen to on someone’s device, reading a chapter out of the Bible, following a kids devotional (if kids are in the home) for shared reading, and talking about what people are learning on their own. Christians are learners/disciples by definition. So irrespective of formal education, we can all learn God’s Word. And we can learn to talk about it during family worship time.
Second, List the resources that need gathered up or purchased. Get a notepad to write prayer requests on. Secure a favorite pen to keep record of those requests. Get missionary literature from the church. Select a short memory verse you think is apt for your family. Get a couple hymns off the internet or a song book you can sing from. Select the spot for your first Family Worship Time (dinner table? living room? a bedroom? a common area?). Get a family Bible to place in the area your family will meet. Get a kids devotion guide if you have kids around. If you want to be successful, be sure to gather good resources for the task of family worship. Ask your church leaders for resource recommendations.
Third, Approach other family members that live in your household. Be sure to talk with the Lord about your family before you talk with your them about family worship. Pray. If married, especially approach your spouse first about having a family worship time. Approach humbly. Listen sincerely. Perhaps they will need more time to understand. Or they may have an idea of a favorite resource or of the best time and place for your family to meet. If the family members are willing, start small. Start with one family worship time a week. You can always add more later. Inform your family you are going to have a family worship time on such and such a date (preferably, not the same day you inform them). Again, start small. Start slow.
Fourth, Equip your family for the task. Delegate a few responsibilities (e.g., a notetaker for requests, a missions prayer warrior, a singer, a Scripture reader). Involving family members with seemingly small responsibilities is a great way to gain energy for the task of family worship. Give a child the responsibility of keeping up with what page number you’re on for church directory prayer. Give another the task of picking the song we’ll listen too or sing. Ask your spouse if they’ll lead prayer or read the Scripture selection. This will grow them up in the faith and can even help engage younger ones with spiritual things. You may have to practice family worship a few times before this takes form.
Fifth, Enjoy your times of worship. These are not to be tense and herky-jerky. The idea is that you allow the Spirit to lead your family. We never feel like there’s time for family worship. But we always feel like it was time well spent. I just know you’ll feel the same way if you try family worship. You can have a fruitful family worship time by following these five steps: Learn, List Resources, Approach, Equip, and Enjoy your family. Family worship will draw you closer together and you will learn to love it!
This article is used in MVBC Membership Matters course.
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For a free mini-course on the history and practice of family worship, go here as accessed December 2018.
For a brief read on the subject attain Family Worship by Don Whitney.
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